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Avoid the Slip!

Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” John 8:12

Cold, winter greetings. Today has brought quite the chill compared to recent days. I enjoy the variety of seasons and I am even a fan of snow. God’s creation amazes me and it can be quite unpredictable. Even the weather forecast can get it wrong occasionally. However, God never gets anything wrong. His ways are perfect along with His timing.

This brings to mind a couple of thoughts today.

1. How do you prepare for the unpredictable? You are unaware it is coming and then it happens. Take Covid-19 for instance. A year ago, most of us could not imagine life as we know it today. Why? Because it was something we had never experienced. Did it catch us off-guard? Probably, but it didn’t surprise God.

If you are slack in the day of distress, your strength is limited. Proverbs 24:10

Life is definitely changeable. Many events are so unforeseeable and far from anticipated. Yet these unexpected events teach us not be overly stunned when things do occur. No matter how startled we are, we must prepare for them. But how?

I believe it requires three basic steps:

  • First it starts with us accepting the fact astonishing events will come.
  • Next, we must continue to grow in our faith and trust in the Lord. As we draw closer to God, Scripture tells us He will do the same.
  • And finally, we have to set up daily provisions in our lives to be able to stand firm during a storm.

Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Romans 8:35

These are routines which allow us to tap into a strength beyond our human means. Prayer, listening to God, daily Scripture reading, being in touch with the Holy Spirit, presenting ourselves powerless before the Lord, etc. When we take on an eternal mindset, we realize preparing goes beyond “if the shocking day will come” to “when the alarming day comes”. Our Father wants us ready and prepared.

The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble, and He knows those who take refuge in Him. Nahum 1:47

2. How do you avoid slipping away from God when normal support systems fail?  Small groups, face-to-face bible studies, accountability partners, worship, church sermons, etc. are just a few of the measures we use to stay connected and growing spiritually. But what happens when all is stripped away? It is like ice-skating across the parking lot without the proper equipment after an unexpected winter storm produces 2 inch gift of solid ice. No doubt, it is hard to avoid sliding out of control.

The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge; my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. Psalm 18:2

So how do we avoid the slip? I think this is a question many Christians are asking themselves in 2020. Even churches across the world have found it difficult to fill in the gaps when “normal” could not occur. It is not surprising to see brothers and sisters in Christ sliding away and stumbling upon false means to keep the fall from hurting. Yet I really believe there are ways to keep gliding along and prevent from stumbling.

Trust in the Lord forever, for in God the Lord, we have an everlasting Rock. Isaiah 26:4

Regardless of what is offered around us, we must hold on to our commitment to God. We have to continue our growth journey even if all the support systems end. Our spiritual maturity is our personal responsibility so we have to plan for it. The Lord provided all we need-His Word and the Holy Spirit. When we substitute these things with close associations it will leave us holding the short end of the stick. This is far from what God intended.

knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. James 1:3

To avoid the slip,

  • we have to take ownership of our faith. The realization for our spiritual growth pathway has to begin with the image in the mirror.
  • Daily we have to train ourselves to tap into God’s two resources-Scripture and the Holy Spirit within us. When we are able to do this routinely, then we are better prepared to continue maturing in our faith especially when our Christian world provisions whither or are promptly disrupted.
  • Basically, we must assume the proprietorship of continuing to develop in Christ.

But as for me, I shall sing of Your strength; Yes, I shall joyfully sing of Your lovingkindness in the morning, for You have been my stronghold and a refuge in the day of my distress. Psalm 59:16

As I ponder the response to each of these questions, I find myself challenged. For me, God is prompting me to be more relational routinely. The Holy Spirit is working within me and showing me the map to real hope in God. Slowly, I am realizing it is my responsibility to tap into God’s resources. So, my maturity in Christ hinges upon my efforts and the growth plan I carry out. I cannot survive life’s surprises by relying on anything or anyone but the true source of hope, GOD!     

What is your takeaway?

Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:6-7

How to Handle Delays

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Therefore, humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, 1 Peter 5:6 NIV

Hi friends! I am delighted you have stopped by today. Refining has been an amazing journey over the past sixteen months. It went from simple reflection on paper to small groups, retreats, online classes, Zoom meetings, one-on-one mentoring, Facebook, Instagram, and a blog. WOW! I am still in awe from God’s amazing work without delay.

As I reflect upon the journey, I can’t help but think about God’s timing. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us “There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven”. The Lord’s timetable is perfect yet I often find myself existing elsewhere. I frequently have to remind myself of Isaiah 55:8, “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord.

Timing is a tricky issue. There are times we need to speed it up, slow it down, or even just wait. WAIT? Yes, that is a word I don’t like to hear either, especially in regards to my personal agenda. How often do you like to hear the words, “Sorry friend, there has been a delay in your plans” or “You will have to exhibit patience because this is impossible currently”? Urgh! My initial response-Are you serious?

What about you? How do you respond to delays? Is patience your strong suit? Are you the poster child for waiting? Most people try to avoid delays. They take a different pathway to work to avoid a school zone or travel outside of peak hours to avoid traffic. I am guilty of taking matters into my own hands when I believe my time waiting is deemed as wasteful.

2 Ways to Respond to Delays

  • Remain faithful and rely on God’s timing: What would you say if I told you our delays could be part of God’s plans? The Bible is filled with examples. Remember when David was anointed as a king? He had to wait 13 years before he was truly anointed. How did he respond? David remained faithful and loyal to the Lord. He trusted God’s timing.  

The Lord has great plans. In our journey, He will expect us to exercise endurance and perseverance when our agenda is delayed. We can allow waiting to build our character. God has devised a reason for the postponement. Although the time lag may seem a waste, the Father will continue to stand beside us. It is up to us to permit God to continue in the driver seat and direct our pathway. Delays are a test of faith. They quickly reveal the ruling authority over our lives.

  • Take matters into your own hands: Although God doesn’t expect us to sit back and do nothing, He does want us to remain committed to His ways. For generations, we seem to struggle to be compliant. Think about Abraham. He decided he should get ahead of God to have a child.  

We live in an instantaneous world where things come quickly-fast food, 2-day shipping, messaging, texting, quick pay, and the list continues. Why would we tolerate delays? They are a nuisance and we have been conditioned to believe we are better off taking matters into our own hands than waiting. So, jump on a solution and avoid waiting. Life is too short.

But God quickly reminds us of the test-the delay exam-Who do you truly honor? Are you more loyal to man’s ways or God’s direction? Do you fear being seen as a failure in the world’s eyes or do you really rely on God and His timing? Can you find joy in waiting? Do you have what it takes to be dedicated and constant in your faith when God seems to be dragging His feet? Are you devoted to fighting back those selfish agendas and committed to resist the enemy’s schemes?

Just food for thought…How do you handle delays? Better yet, how will you handle it the next time it rears its ugly head?

I wait for the Lord, my soul does wait, And in His word do I hope. Psalm 130:5

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